The rapid pleasurable release of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal and the intense or paroxysmal excitement is an orgasm. This is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female.
Or it can be defined as the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
An orgasm is a sexual climax (or high point). An orgasm happens because of continued sexual touching. The sexual excitement and pleasure intensify during an orgasm. Sexual touching may be sexual intercourse, rubbing or squeezing by hand (called masturbation), or other actions that make the sex organs feel good.
A strange look develops on his or her face during an orgasm and the person's body sometimes spasms (shakes or trembles), looking as if the person is in pain.
The person's brain activity changes quickly. The parts of the brain responsible for fear, worry and self-control become less active. Many people moan, shout or say strange things during orgasm. The people involved in an orgasm totally forget what is around them due to the focus on the pleasure of the orgasm.
Orgasms may happen when people are asleep. When man orgasms while sleeping, it is often called a "wet dream".
Other mammals may have orgasms when they have sex.
At the orgasm, the penis usually becomes erect (hard) before an orgasm and flaccid (soft) again after. When a man has an orgasm, he feels a very strong and enjoyable feeling in his penis and groin, and sometimes in all of his body. In a man, an orgasm coincides with the ejaculation, which is a release of semen through the penis. Ejaculation cannot be stopped in between. Young boys can orgasm, but there may be no semen because semen release usually occurs only after puberty has started. A deep sense of relaxation develops in the groin and the thighs after achieving an orgasm. Usually the stronger the orgasm, the deeper the relaxation and the longer the relaxation will last.
Clitoris, the counterpart of the man's penis is the centre of the woman's orgasm. Vagina gets opened and moist with an erection of the clitoris. Rhythmic contractions occur side by side with an orgasm in her uterus, vagina, anus and pelvic muscles. Most women find these contractions very pleasurable. Women get an effective orgasm by rubbing or applying other consistent pressure against the clitoris.
The ESO technique
If you take pride in the quality of your lady's climax, then read on. A general orgasm for woman lasts only 15 seconds, but this could be extended up to half-an-hour.
She needs to be well prepared with some solo preparation and be ready for the operation in order to have a chance of eliciting an epic orgasm. Your partner should leave all worries and inhibitions about sex and any other worries she may have for the time being. She should be very positive about sex. Many women offer resistance rather than the offered pleasure in sex, so some "cognitive restructuring" is required. Next, she should practice Kegel pelvic floor exercises, which involve squeezing, holding, and then releasing the same muscles used to stop urinating mid-flow. She should get more aware of the strokes, speeds, pressures and rhythms of masturbation by doing more of masturbation herself.
Is she done all that? And you're sitting comfortably? Okay, then let's begin.
Sit or kneel beside her after she lies down. Apply some lubricant to the whole of her vagina and perineum and then lightly stroke and tease her for at least five minutes – without stimulating the clitoris or the inside of the vagina.
Use your index finger to stimulate her clitoris with slow and steady circular movements, travelling around it once per second. Make sure she tells you exactly what pressure and rhythm feel best.
She should begin her pelvic-floor squeezes while breathing deeply from the stomach together with the finger movements. The orgasm should not be far if everything goes as per plan.
You can feel the regular two-second genital contractions when she is about to come, which is an indication that orgasm is imminent. Once the contractions start, clitoris stimulation shall be stopped and immediately move to stroking the inner vaginal walls. Push your fingers in or out or sweep them in circles, slowly and steadily, in and out of the vaginal entrance to prolong the orgasm.
Still with us?
Once the orgasm is over, you can feel the vagina start to draw back. But the aim in ESO is to prolong the contractions, for which you keep your fingers inside her vagina, stroking gently until she requests for more pressure and frequency. By stimulating the inner walls of vagina there will be another series of contractions.
The moments you feel a pause in the pulsating, move quickly back to stroking the clitoris as before. Contractions can occur continuously by circling the clitoris, at which point you have to move back to stimulating inside the vagina again. You keep on changing back and forth from vaginal to clitoral stimulation with contractions occurring every one to five seconds.
After continuing for about 15 minutes, the vagina will begin to draw away less and less and the contractions would be rhythmically continuous. When the vagina pushes out in a continual wave-like motion, you're in the final phase. The position should be so compromised so that you can use both hands to stimulate the clitoris and vagina simultaneously. The result should be wave after wave of multiple orgasms.
Now, have a rest.
As a recipient of such a pleasurable 30 minutes with such a mind-blowing orgasm, your lady will feel eternally sexy and very thankful. This means that it will be reciprocated with a lot of pleasure for you with lots of blowjobs and sex in return. Worth going that extra 29 minutes and 45 seconds wouldn't you say?
"Yes! Yes! Yes!"
That's The Sound of your Woman Coming Over And Over.
Using ESO Techniques you were successful in giving her 30 Minute Orgasms continuously, which is any woman's dream.